There will always be a difficult but necessary person in your life. He or she might be at work, at school, or around the neighborhood. It might also feel like sometimes you are the only one who is having a hard time working with them. It is too easy to let such a person affect you and ruin your day. You should focus less on how they are interfering with your life and more on how to better cope with them. It might not be possible to change people but it is possible to deal with them.
The first thing you need to do is take care of yourself. You do not want to escalate any conflicts or problems by losing your own self-control. The less reactive you are, the better your judgment will be. A good strategy for maintaining composure is by being proactive. If you can focus your energy on problem solving, you will minimize any misunderstanding that might arise and escalate the problem. Being proactive also includes finding other people who might share your sentiment. Not only does that justify your cause but it also helps you feel less isolated by a difficult person. When trying to deal with the stresses of a difficult person, it is important to have someone to turn to who can help you process your feelings and thoughts.
However, you do not want to be too proactive to the point where the difficult person feels like a victim. This will only make things worse. There are many healthy ways to work with them without accusing or calling them out. You want to ensure that they have an equal voice in the mediation. Give them the spotlight so they can also reflect on their behavior. However, you want to maintain the lead and the flow of the communication. At the end of the day, your objective is for them to recognize and correct.
It is never easy to establish a healthy relationship with a difficult person. However, the quicker you address it with them, the quicker you can work together. Remember, you do not need to fight this battle by yourself. You can reach out to friends, family, or even counselors for advice. Most likely, you are not the only one who is disturbed by a certain person.